I guess I'll just keep doin what I've been doin: Me.
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
Sex vs Love
Ahh man. More relationship type stuff. haha. Sometimes I wonder if I think about anything else. So this weekend I went to DC for the first time...but this blog entry won't be about that. On the very long bus ride, I had plenty of time to think about things. One of those things I got to thinking about was sex. It kinda made me miss it...well, specifically sex with someone I love. Sex is just so much better with someone you have a connection with. I don't mean the sort of connection where you're just insanely attracted to someone and can't wait to jump their bones. I mean the sort of attraction where you actually give a shit what they think...you don't want them to leave the immediate second after the deed is done...the kind of connection where you can just close your eyes and let go. I miss being close to someone on that level. I still don't feel like I'm emotionally ready for a relationship but I'm getting closer. If anything I wish I just had that kind of cut buddy type of friend. Not really someone you have sex with all the time but just someone you can kick it with and sometimes you sleep together and it's never weird. The friendship is there and the sex is there but none of the relationship baggage. People don't seem to get that these days though.
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Sooo get what you mean. I'm in a relationship that's lasted quite some time now. And I agree with you, sex is better with someone you love/have a connection with. Its something that you don't even need to talk about. You both have this common feeling and it's just there. There's no word to describe that feeling. I've also had that connection with a friend in the past where we would have sex, then afterwards go on about our business. Friendship was never compromised, never had any weird feelings or emotions. It was what it was. And here I go airing my dirty laundry. Basically...I agree and get it.
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